I have become a very untrusting person. I’ve always given people the benefit of the doubt, but these days I walk around with my hand on my wallet and my back to a wall and make people prove to me they are trustworthy. I’ve been burned so many times by people who say things, and even written documents that seem to nail down all the details, but later find the document writer has very cleverly inserted an innocent phrase or two that is in reality a loophole.
Bro and I are brainstorming a way to totally bypass banks in our business dealings. It can be done, but it isn’t easy. Business today almost requires you interact with insurance companies, bankers, lawyers, beancounters, bureaucrats, regulators, and many others, all who are maneuvering feverishly to find a way to cheat you. In the home building bidness today, actually building a home has almost become an inconvenient little piece of the enterprise.
This is not what I signed on for.
I sometimes think I belong in another era, an era where you had to rely on no one but yourself, and a handshake was your word of honor. If anybody shakes your hand today, you’d better check to see if they made off with your ring.
S